Free Advice

Free Advice

What is the most common gift that people love to give?

The prize is "ADVICE"!!!

We like to give advice free of charge, even when not asked.

If you do not believe, try it at the time was with a group of friends, tell them about your idea to do a new business, and see what happens.

If there are six people in the group, you might get six different opinions, complete with personal recommendations and advice.

Without a doubt, all the "advice" that is a gift given to you in good faith. That's how your friends showed their love and attention to you. How can you refuse a bit of "wisdom" is?

So, you be polite. You listen. However does not mean or useless advice or sources of advice that you fulfill your obligations as a friend who is polite, and pretended to be interested in the views, feedback, or criticism "positive" them.

Even so, be careful. At a certain point in the conversation, the majority opinion trashy beginning to make sense, and you start to get confused and doubting your own abilities.

Half an hour later, a friend, an acquaintance or a stranger that you've gone along, but once you are successful plans have been a mess in front of your eyes.

Half an hour earlier, you are so confident about your potential, but now you can not forget the pessimistic predictions and the low expectations of your friends.

The more you want to ignore it, truer it becomes.

Now, there are six new cow that eats grass in the main part of your mind, of which previously did not exist.

So what?

Well ....

At that time, I was talking to someone about my new project which will begin, when suddenly he interrupted me and said, "Camilo, let me give you some free advice ..."

My blessings, "Wait! Before you say anything to me, let me ask you some questions."

He was surprised by my quick reaction, but said, "Okay, ask ..."

I continued, "Have you ever had an experience in this field and if so, whether it was a successful experience, do you feel worthy of giving advice in this matter? After all, what would you say might affect vision and my hope in this project, and I do not need to tell you again how important this project for me. So if you are really sure of the precious gift that you will give me this? "

He thought for a moment, then said, "Forget it."

You may think I be rude to not let our opinion. However, I could have listened politely, then ignored it.

But I do not want to risk opening my mind to the negative opinions and expectations of others.

Once an idea is planted in your mind, you become a servant. If it turns out that the idea is wrong, and you allow him to enter and grow in your mind, an idea that would change the views, beliefs, and expectations you about your own abilities.

False idea that could even destroy your life.

You need to understand that a lot of "negative thoughts", which makes us bound to the life sober, actually when traced is giving another person.

We often fall victim to the negative influences of others and allow them to instill false confidence in our subconscious that ultimately will limit the growth of the physical, emotional, and intellectual us.

Wrong ideas that are programmed into our minds by others that, however would be a bad influence on our lives.

Do not let false ideas pollute our hope of success. Always ask first, whether the person who will give us counsel is a decent person. Listen only from people who are already successful in the same field, not just "the story of a bird".

("Once Upon A Cow", Dr. Camilo Cruz)

Bike Racing

Bike Racing

There was a young man. He is interested in bicycle racing. After collecting the money, he finally was able to buy a racing bike.

Gladly, he tried the racing bike. After several days of trying, he's disappointed. He can not ride his bike at high speed. After all he is pedaling, the bike still running slow. Finally he brought the bike to a place where he bought it.

"Sir, you deceived me! He said the bike race, but a scar his run really slow. Even defeated by ordinary bicycle. "He said angrily to the seller bike.

"All right, sir? Whereas the national riders using the bike like this. They can quickly scar? "Said bicycle salesman, astonished.

"The proof? I've been desperately paddling, still slow. "He said raising his voice.

"Maybe there is a broken pack. May I check? "Asked the seller a bike stay calm.

Then he checked the bike. After a while he said:

"Nothing broken pack, 100% condition."

"But .. reality? The bike was slow! Try it yourself if you do not believe. "Said the young man remained on a high note.

"Well sir, we'll try." Said bicycle salesman, gesturing to his men to try the bike.

Wussss .... after a while, it drove the bike with the hardness. Obviously making the youth had been filmed.

"Bete be well?", Said the young man confused.

"Please try again. I want to see how you bring the bike. "Said bike salesman smile of relief, because the bike is not anything.

The young man tried to ride my bike. He tried to pedal fast and hard. It is true, the bike is not moving quickly. Boy pedaling effort looks in vain because his bike was not speeding too. Finally, with a full body sweat, he approached the bike seller.

"What's wrong huh?", He said, still confused.

Sellers bike smiling. He had found where the mistake lies.

"As soon as any of your pedaling, speed does not rise to the mean if you stay in first gear." Said bike sellers explaining.

"Oh ... so have to move teeth well? How do I? ", Said the young man, holding a shame. His face was red. If it was red with anger, now red with embarrassment.

Mousetrap

Mousetrap

A husband and wife farmers come home after shopping. When they open up the groceries, a rat look closely muttering

"Hmmm ... what else food brought them out of the market??"

As it turned out, one of which was purchased by the farmer is a mousetrap. The mice unbelievable shock. He immediately ran to the cage and shout

"There is a rat trap in the house!!! At home there is now a rat trap!"

He went to the chicken and shout

"There is a mousetrap"

The chicken said

"Mr. Rat ..., I'm so sad, but it has no effect on me"

The rats then went to a goat while shouting. Then the goat was said

"I'm sympathetic ... but sorry, there's nothing I can do"

Rat and Ox met. He got the same answer.

"I'm sorry. Mousetrap but harmless to me at all"

He then ran into the woods and meets Snake. The snake said

"Ahhh ... a small mouse trap will not hurt me"

Finally, the mice returned home with resignation knowing that he will face danger alone.

One night, the homeowner was awakened by a loud noise that sounded rat trap. Indicates the trap has claimed. However, when looking at the rat trap, a poisonous snake had been stuck in there. Snakes sandwiched make it more violent and attacked the Farmer's wife. Although the husband managed to kill the snake, but the wife did not get bitten and poisoned by the venom.

After a few days in the hospital, the wife was discharged. But after a couple of days later a high fever that does not go down and down as well. On the advice of his relatives, he made his wife's chicken soup to reduce fever. The more days instead of getting cured, his wife even more high fever. A friend suggested to eat goat liver. He then slaughtered the goat to take her.

Still! His wife does not heal and eventually died.

Lots of people came to the funeral. So he had to slaughter the cow to feed the people mourn. From a distance the mice looked at with great sadness. A few days later he saw the rat traps are not used anymore in the house.

The moral:
When you hear someone is in trouble / problem and you think it does not concern you, then think again ...

Lucky or Unlucky ?

Lucky or Unlucky ?

There is an ancient Chinese story of an old man whose attitude in looking at life totally different from others in his village.

Apparently the old man had only one horse, and one day his horse run away. The neighbors come and have mercy on him, telling him how they feel sorry for the misfortune that happened to him.

The answer is to make them wonder.

"But how do you know that misfortune?" he asked.

A few days later the horse home, and go with him two horses wild. Now the old man had three horses. This time, its neighbors congratulate him on his good fortune.

"But how do you know it luck?" he replied.

The next day, while one is trying to tame a wild horse, her son fell and broke his leg.

Once again, the neighbors came, this time to comfort the old man because of his son's accident.

"But how do you know that misfortune?" he asked.

This time, all of its neighbors draw the conclusion that the old chaotic mind and no longer want to deal with it.

However, the next day the war came to the village authorities and take all the healthy men to take to the battlefield. But the son of the old man did not participate were taken, because the body is not healthy!

We're all going to live a quieter life if we do not be too hasty to pass judgment events that occurred. Even what we hate the most, and that is still causing a negative reaction if the unthinkable by us, may play a positive role in our lives.

(Be proactive: enlarge the interval space between stimulus and response ..... :)

Story of An Apple Tree

Story of An Apple Tree

Once, there lived a large apple tree and a boy who likes to play around under the apple tree every day.

He was happy to climb up to the top of the tree, eat the fruit, dozing in the shade of leafy leaves. The boy loved the tree. Similarly apple tree loved the little boy.

Time flies. The boy has now grown up and no longer play around with the apple tree every day.

One day she came to the apple tree. His face looked sad.

"Come over here and play with me," pleaded the apple tree.

"I'm not a little kid playing around with the tree again," the boy replied. "I'd love to have a toy, but I do not have the money to buy it."

The apple tree said, "Duh, sorry I did not have money ... but you should take all of my apple pieces and sell them. You can get the money to buy toys're into."

The boy was very happy. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and went joyfully. However, after the boy had never come again. The tree was again sad.

One day the boy came again. Apple trees are very pleased to see it coming. "Come play with me again," the tree said.

"I have no time," replied the boy. "I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Would you help me?"

"Duh, sorry I did not have a house., But you must cut down all the branches rantingku to build your house," the tree said.

Then the boy cut down all the branches and twigs of the tree and left happily. The tree was also felt happy to see the boy happy, but the boy never came back again. The tree was again lonely and sad.

In the summer, the boy came again. Apple tree felt very welcomed him joyfully. "Come and play with me," the tree said.

"I'm sad," said the boy. "I am old and want to live in peace. I want to go on vacation and sailing. Would you give me a boat for a cruise?"

"Duh, sorry I do not have a boat, but you may cut off my rod and use it to make a boat that you want. Go sailing and have fun."

Later, the boy cut the tree trunk and make the dream ship. He went sailing and never again came to the apple tree.

Finally, the boy came again after many years later.

"I'm sorry my son," the tree said. "I've never had more apples for you." "That's all right. I've never had any teeth to bite the fruit apelmu," replied the boy.

"I do not have stems and branches that you can climb," the tree said.

"Now, I'm too old for that," replied the boy.

"I really do not have anything else I can give you. Thing left was my roots are old and dying," the tree said with tears.

"I do not need anything else right now," said the boy. "I just need a place to rest. I was very tired after such a long time to leave."

"Oooh, that's good. Did you know, old tree roots is the best place to lie down and rest. Mari, let's lie in the arms of my roots and rest in peace."

The boy was lying in the arms of the tree roots.

The tree was very happy and smiling with tears in her eyes.

The tree is our parent.

When we are young, we are happy to play around with our father and mother. When we grow up, we leave them, and only come when we need something or in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there to give what they can give to make us happy. You might think that the boy had been acting very rough on it, but that's how we treat our parents.

And, most importantly: love our parents.

Tell our parents now, how much we love her, and thank you for your entire life has been and will be given to us.

Stone breaker

Stone breaker
There is a stone breaker who see a rich man .
Jealous of the wealth of the people , he suddenly turned into a rich man .
When he was traveling with his train , he must give way to an official .
Envy with the official status , he suddenly turned into an official .
When he went on his way , he felt the scorching heat of the sun .
Envy by the greatness of the sun , he suddenly turned into the sun .
When he was shining brightly , a black cloud enveloped him .
Jealous of cloud cover , she suddenly turned into a cloud .
When he was drifting in the sky , the wind swept .
Jealous of the power of the wind , he suddenly turned into the wind .
When he was blowing , he was unable to penetrate the mountain .
Jealous of valor mountain , he suddenly turned into a mountain .
When he became a mountain , he saw someone break it down .
Jealous of him , he suddenly woke up as a stone breaker .
Turns out it was all just a dream the stone crushers .
Because we are all interconnected and interdependent , no one really higher or lower . Life is fine ... until we start comparing .
True happiness is not conditioned by anything .

Humility Samuel Morse

Humility Samuel Morse

A famous inventor Samuel Morse . One time when he was asked if ever faced with a situation where he did not know what to do , he replied : " Yes .. I've been dealing with a situation like that , and not just once . And if I can not see the road or the answer is obvious , I would kneel and pray for light , understanding and way of God . "

Morse received many awards because of his discoveries in the field telegraph . But he always humbly said: "I have made ​​a valuable application in the world telegraph , but it's not because I'm better , better than anyone else , but because God in His plan for mankind , must relevance it through somebody . God choose to declare it to the world through me . "

Humility does not mean thinking that you are lower than others, nor does it mean we have low picture above oneself. But on the contrary , humility means a freedom from thinking about yourself.

Mathematical Logic

Mathematical Logic

In a class, teacher was giving a math word problems.

TEACHER:
"You go to the supermarket to buy flour., Where there are packs of 1 kg of flour at a price of Rp. 5.000, - Also there is a packing of 5 kg of flour at a price of 20,000, - Packaging which should you buy so you can save and profit? "

ROBERT:
"We should buy packs of 1 kg at a price of Rp. 5.000, -"

TEACHER:
"Well, too bad. Answer? Wrong Robert. Should we buy flour in 5 kg packs for Rp. 20,000, -"

ROBERT:
"But the teacher was not at home ... Mom just needs a bit of flour? 1 kg I think is enough. Fact, my mother just throw one bag of flour that has been damaged due to long unused. Would not it even more wasteful and" waste of money " alone? "

TEACHER:
"Not Robert. Correct answer is we have to buy 5 kg of flour with packaging for Rp. 20.000, - because that's the answer should be."

ROBERT:
"But Mom ... to what to buy as much flour it will eventually if not used?"

TEACHER:
"Robert ... that's the correct answer. You do not argue."

ROBERT:
"But Mom ... I think the correct answer is ..."

TEACHER:
"Come on Robert! Come now follow the teacher facing the Headmaster. Your behavior is very bad today! Not you supposed to be defiant in the classroom."

(The Robert in the story above is Robert Kiyosaki, as they experienced themselves. Figures have been adjusted.)

Ten booster Your Happiness

Ten booster Your Happiness

LET GO OF DEMAND

What the hell, that actually makes you angry and disappointed? Is someone who cut the queue in front of you? Fraudulent driver who provokes you in the street? Computers are only to be booted just feels so long? Mobile should be changed twice each month as it continues to be stolen? People who mock and ridicule you? It rained all day? lots of bill that makes you angry to the fontanel?

No, that's not all. What makes you angry and disappointed is "childish demands" and "unrealistic expectations".

When you were a baby, what you need to do to get something, just screaming crying like crazy. With that capital, you get a new diaper, breast milk or cow's milk, ten or fifteen items banana scrapings to be enjoyed.

That's characteristics while still helpless you first. At that time, you can still demanding behavior acceptable. But now you've grown. You are responsible for your life, and you can no longer expect that the world will serve you as you want. If you still do it now, it's called self-induced misery, suffering alias that you create yourself. Stop.

What you need to do is actually quite easy. You only need to replace the demand and expectations, with a preference.

"I demanded that my husband does not get up early, but I'd prefer if he was able to do it."

You will better understand, and you will be the one to full understanding.

Dispose of Irrational Thinking

"I will never be happy unless I serve the world as I would like."

It is not rational. What can you just control yourself.

Want to Be Happier

Whether we realize it or not, you probably do not want to be happy. You can let go of any of your self; money, possessions, time, energy, and even love, except one; your suffering.

Happy to be starting your own volition. You want to be happy or not? Consciously you obviously want to be happy. But try again dive into your subconscious. It may be that you yourself are not willing unhappy.

When you feel angry, unhappy that suffering. Let go of your pain, not the vent. Ask yourself, "its right, would change happy at this outrage?" Extend your wick so that you can dispose of suffering.

Stop Self-Pity

You are not going to be a hero just to suffer. Is more heroic if you remain merry in the midst of suffering.

Stop Exaggerating

No need to blow-up problems to get out of proportion. It will paralyze you. Learn to make it as objective and motivation to take action.

LET GO OF REGRET

You certainly never regret anything, of course. Wong this we humans really. It was, in fact another version of the words: "We're not perfect".

No need to panic or obsessed by remorse. Make it a positive force. Think of it as a wakeup call, a slap that wakes you from sleep. Are not you a tiger?

Do not put off the action with regret. Act immediately and you will not regret it anymore, because you've done something.

Cover tightly width distance between your ideal and you are now. Enjoy your present and do what you think best. Because if you have time to regret, then you definitely have time to do something about it.

LET GO OF GREED

"I've got everything I want, and I have become what I want, except ..."

Yes. That you might. Not ALL that you want you will get.

First, your resources are limited. Secondly, your appetite is something that will never be satisfied. He was like sea water. The more you drink, the more it feels dry throat. Desire you are wrong, wrong pass of limit.

Be aware that greed is the cause of pleasure. It could have been great. But pleasure itself can become addictive. We often forget, that pleasure does not always equal happiness. When you find that pleasure was not the same as happiness, fear and concerns arose. Fear and worry it will trigger your desire greater.

Then, you will find eternal circle here: Because you desire never had the tip, then fear you will never have the estuary. Stop being imprisoned man!

Yes. But how?

Focus and priorities apply. Begin first by BEING. HAVING matter, yes later alone. And for BEING, you must DOING. Just DO your best.

LET GO OF WORRY

You know why the song "Do not Worry - Be Happy" so popular? That's why you call life.

Understand the difference between "suffering" and "worried". Suffer is a message about the problem, while worry is a message that an opportunity to grow and develop. So beware. Do you really suffer, or you actually only worry right?

If you're just worried, know that the source is fear. You are afraid of something that is still dark, blank, and do not know anything about it. Or, you are afraid to face the challenge.

Know that every second and every moment, you are the seed. The seed should be able to grow up to be big and powerful. Worry can not change the past, but it can ruin the present. Be smart, and act the challenge. Like a tiger.

LET GO OF Defensiveness

One was normal, including if it hurt others. Not command ya, but we all had ever done wrong. You know why pencils, whiteboard and chalkboard eraser was there? Because you are human.

If you are what you say?

"Aduhhh .. sorry ya. Sorry, his name is also human."

So, what do you say if someone else is wrong?

"You fool!" "Stupid!" "fool."

When you are wrong, you are human. When everyone else is wrong, they are not human. It is not rational. Thus, forgive them.

LET GO of Guilt

Guilt is a discomfort when you run into resistance against your own consciousness. Guilt itself is not too dangerous. What is more dangerous is the lack of a solution.

Feeling guilty that good. It signals a red light that warns you that stay on course. So when you are feeling guilty, listen to your heart's content. Which you choose, short-term pleasure or long-term gain?

Guilt is not finding a solution, this will make you experience:

1. The mind is not peaceful.

2. Distrust and fear in others, or even to God.

3. As per the figures, you will suffer three times:

First, when you are acting irresponsibly. Secondly, when you see other people act in a responsible manner. Third, when you have to bear the consequences.

Here is what you need to do when you are not responsible.

Remember that responsibility, is an abbreviation of "response-ability". The ability to respond appropriately. How do I get to respond appropriately? You can use the formula AAA.

1. Admit. Recognize that your actions are wrong choices.

2. Analyze. Your behavior analysis. What you choose the wrong reasons? What are the consequences? How not to repeat it? How to straighten option now?

3. Atonement, aka integrity. Integrity is the merging of the heart, soul, target, action, and faith. When it all together, you are entering the stage of atonement, aka at-one-ment.

With AAA, you can remedy the situation.

LET GO OF Spite

You, must have provoked. By other drivers on the streets, or by others who mock and harass. You must have felt attacked. At the office, at home, on the football field, in the cafeteria, anywhere.

There is no need for such things you serve. Therefore, your world can be broken day. Succumbing alone, unless your constitution is violated or trampled.

We tend to forget that we are more likely to use a heart to feel, rather than the brain to think. It seems right and reasonable. But be careful because it is illogical and irrational. It was emotional.

If you feel the need to serve the attacks, provocations, and the ridicule of others, then that of course there is.

First, your sense of justice is disturbed. When you are attacked, you feel the need to reciprocate. But, if the attack was done by accident, are not intended to attack, misunderstanding, or simply because they are stupid, what the hell kind of justice you want?

Secondly, your logic is distorted. You assume that if they are experiencing pain as you do, then they will apologize.

No. Even if they eventually apologized, it was not because of the pain that you create with a counter-attack, but because the minds and hearts of those who have a straight back. Hurting each other will not solve the problem. He even more sharp.

Third, consciously or not you are trying to avoid responsibility for ourselves happy. Because if you really want to be responsible for your own happiness, you definitely will not run away.

If so, how do I bring a sense of responsibility for the happiness of yourself? Awareness is the answer.

Know that the pain you are suffering is not because their attacks, but because of the reaction you for their behavior. Why are they so mean and cruel to you? Because they are sick, and they feel threatened by you.

Response bad attitudes of others with kindness, then you will be noble and honorable. Always try to be humble but not low self-esteem.

Know that it is not a passive patient. He did not come by itself, and imedietly you be patient. Patience was a verb and not an adjective. So wait, is be patient..

LET GO OF ENVY

You also may never feel defeated. Beware. One-one, defeat can make you become envious, that is, those spiteful and can not accept defeat. Not happy if other people happy, and happy if others are not happy.

Envious attitude, can develop in three stages.

First, when you feel the defeat. At this level, the feeling of losing it actually reasonable. Especially if you can congratulate the winners, and then make the defeat as a lesson. If not, then this is where you will begin envious seeds sown.

Second, when you start to develop a sabotage other people's behavior. The onset of the small ones, like creating issues and bad gossip, or hope and "pray" for misfortune and accidents for others. You might take the IRA is harmless.

Wrong. It was very dangerous. Why? Due to bad expectations as it is rust soul, just like iron rust. Destructive, punching holes, eroded, and undermined all the good deeds. Moreover, where the hell did all crime? Yes of prayer, hope, slander, and negative thoughts strayed like it!

Third, as already mentioned just now, everything is going to manifest into crime. You will be the one to envy, with the attitude and vile actions. You have to self-destruct.

If you begin to experience symptoms of the disease, the recipe is simple. Befriend those who win. Then, change the way you think. Replace "I want to like that," to "How can I be like that."

LET GO OF ANGER

Anger was only one letter shorter than DANGER. And "D", is the value minusn yes.

Good reason for you to not get angry, is to understand that anger will disseminate weakness. When you are angry, you are actually saying, "I'm afraid I'm Injured! I'm frustrated!" That, is another word for "I am weak."

Realize that people, goods, or circumstances, will always tend to make you angry. By design so already. You can not easily control anything outside of yourself. And if you get angry, your anger will not make the world go according to your will. Is you who have to adjust to him.

Be aware that if you are dealing with people who get angry, they're not being mean; they're just being people. Like you. And as usual, it appears upset caused by fear. Fear of losing control.

The desire to control is true. But, want to control the other person wrong. The truth, want to give an example of an example to others. Controlling the power? One also. What needs to be controlled only yourself. Once again, forgive them angry. There is nothing wrong when a human being and act as a human being.

Your own, you are angry because you subtract the one who will lose. When you are angry, what has come out is actually no need to go out and what is already actually do not need already.

LET GO OF FEAR

As you face the fear, you are in the middle of the intersection. One branch leads to cowardice, and one leads to courage. The one to the hopes and dreams, the other can lead to disappointment and sadness.

You can not retreat or remain silent, but still go ahead and choose one of the branches. With silent or retreat, you will not grow and change. Instead, you are heading to extinction and death.

Manage the one you fear, because fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. Genuine but actually false.

So, you do not mind to grieve again. Have fun alone. Get busy. Do your best. No need to be afraid and not to worry. Do everything with passion and courage. It is better for you.

Instead I had already said, if you are the tiger?

("Ten Roadblocks to Happiness and How to Overcome Them")...

Secrets of the Human Age

Secrets of the Human Age

When God created the buffalo, the Lord gives the age of 50 years to the buffalo. His buffalo plowing, working hard, finally told God, "God, I do not need 50 years of age is too old to work hard plowing a field. I quite 20 years old. "

Hearing this request, God finally granted. Buffalo given the age of 20 years. There is a remaining 30 years.

Furthermore, God created the monkey. Monkeys given 20 years of age. This cute monkey entertaining humans. But monkeys also protested, he said, "Lord, I am too old if given the age of 20 years to entertain people, I'm 10 years alone."

Hearing this request, God was finally granted. There the remaining 10 years.

Furthermore, God created the dog, and given the age of 20 years. This dog guard duty. However, just like buffalo and monkeys, this dog just ask 10 year old. Hearing this request, Hes granted.

Furthermore, God says to man, "You man, I love the age of 25 years to have fun, enjoy life. 25 year old are you that you should not work, take it easy alone.

Man who heard this, said "Well, I really just given the age of 25 years. Not enough for me. I asked him more. "

Hearing this request, God finally said, "Okay, you will be given additional human lifespan. Excess of 30 years of age buffalo, monkeys excess of 10 years of age and the age of the dog excess of 10 years, I will give to you. So you are beginning to age 25 years, now get an extra 50 years of age, so 75 years. "

Humans receive it.

Finally, any human life goes something like this:

25 years, a period of fun, from childhood to school and finish college.

The next 30 years "of age additional buffalo" (age 25-55), future work, make ends meet, working hard every day for 30 years, to come to work early in the morning, departing in the afternoon, such as "buffalo life".

10 years later "extra aged monkeys" (age 55-65), has a future grandchild, grandchildren. Smiled at the sweet grandchildren, menina bobokkan grandchildren, playing with grandchildren. His job "so entertainers".

10 years later "extra dog's life" (age 65-75), a period of "keeping house". The children and grandchildren go to work and school. It's time at home.

Is this like the life I want???

Life is a choice.

Tree, Leaf and Wind

Tree, Leaf and Wind

LEAF fly because the wind blows or because TREE not ask her to stay?

TREE

Orang2 called "TREE" because I was very good at drawing trees.

I always use a tree on the right side as a trademark for all my paintings.

I have been dating for 5 times ...

There was one woman I love .. but really I do not have the courage to say it. ..

She was not pretty .. do not have a sexy body ..

He was very concerned with religious others .. but .. he just ordinary women.

I love it. . Really liked it. .

His style is innocent and candid .. .. kepandaiann yes its independence and strength. ..

The reason I did not ask her out because ...

I felt he was very ordinary and no match for me ...

I fear ... when we were together all the good feelings will be gone ...

I am afraid that will hurt gosip2. ..

I feel he is a "friend". ..

I will have no end ... do not have to give up everything just for her ...

The last reason .. makes him accompany me for 3 years ...

He knows I pursue other gadis2 and I have made her cry for 3 years ...

When I kissed my boyfriend's 2nd seen by him ...

He just smiled with a red-faced ... "go ahead" he said, before running off us.

The next day, her eyes swollen and red .. ...

I deliberately did not want to think about what caused it to cry ...

but I laugh ... joke with him all day in the room ...

In the corner of the room she was crying ... she does not know that I go back to pick up something left .. .

Nearly 1 hour I saw him crying there ....

4th boyfriend did not like. ..

Once they were both cold war, I know its not the start of the cold war ...

But I am still with my boyfriend ...

I shouted at him and his eyes filled with tears of sadness and shocked ...

I do not care about her feelings and walked off with my boyfriend ...

The next day, still laughing and joking with me like nothing happened before .. .

I know he is very sad and disappointed but he did not know that my heart ache just as bad as him ...

I was also sad ...

When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her to go ...

After going out for the day, I say that there is something to tell him ...

He said that the coincidence that he also wanted to tell me something ...

I AM the story of my break ...

He said that he was starting a relationship with someone ...

I know him ... he often chased for this ... good man, full of energy and exciting ...

I can not show her my heartache, I just smile and congratulate her ...

When I got home, my pain grew stronger and I can not help it .. .

As there is a very heavy rock my chest ... I could not breathe and wanted to scream but apadaya ...

My tears flowed not feel I was in tears ...

I have often seen her cry for the man who ignored his presence. ..

My cell phone vibrating ... it turns out there is an incoming SMS ... SMS was sent 10 days ago when I broke down and cried ...

SMS that reads, "LEAF fly because the wind blows or because TREE not ask her to stay?"

LEAF

I like to collect leaves, why?

Because I feel that the LEAF to leave the tree that had been inhabited requires a lot of strength.

For 3 yrs I am close to a man, not as a girlfriend but "Friends".

But when he has a girlfriend for the first time ...

I studied a feeling that I had never learned before - jealous ...

The feeling in this heart can not be described by using a lemon.

It's like 100 rotten sour lemon. They were only together for 2 months ...

When they broke up, I hid feeling ecstatic.

But a month later he was with another girl ...

I love it and I know that he like me, but why he did not want to say it?

If he loves me, why he is not starting to go?

When he got a new girlfriend again, my heart is sad ...

Time is running and running, my heart sad and disappointed ...

I began to think that this is a love unrequited ...

But .. why he treated me more than just a friend?

Like someone very troublesome heart ... I know his favorite.

.. Habit. ..

But his feelings towards me I can never figure ...

You do not expect a woman to say I am not?

Beyond that, I want to stay beside him. .. Give him attention ...

accompany. .. And love. ..

Hope one day he will come and love me. ..

It was like waiting telephonenya every night ... expect for sent SMS n ...

I know how busy he is, will make time for me ...

Because of this, I am waiting. ..

3 years sufficiently hardest to go through and I want to give up ... Sometimes I think to keep waiting ...

The dilemma accompanied me for 3 years ...

End of year 3, a man after me .. . Every day he chased me relentlessly ...

Every effort has been made although there is often a rejection of me ...

I think ... if I want to give a little space in my heart for him?! ..

He was such a warm and gentle wind, trying to blow the leaves away from the tree ...

Finally, I realized that I did not want to give this wind a little in my heart ...

I know the wind will carry away the leaves were worn away and the place better ...

Finally I left tree ... but the tree only smiled and did not ask me to stay ...

I am very sad to look at him smiling at me ...

"LEAF fly because the wind blows or because TREE not ask her to stay?"

WIND

I like a girl called leaf ...

because he's so dependent on tree .. so I had to be strong WIND ...

The wind would blow her away ...

First time .. I saw someone watching us ...

When it is, he always sat there alone or with notice teman2nya Tree ...

When he talks with gadis2, no jealousy in his eyes ...

When looking towards the tree leaves, there was a smile in her eyes ...

Notice becomes habit. .. Like leaves that look like trees.

One day just did not see him ... I feel so lost .. .

In the corner of the room, I saw a tree scolding ...

Water flows in the eyes while he left ...

The next day ... I saw her at her usual place, looking at the Tree ...

I stepped up and smiled at him ... I took a piece of paper .. I write and give him ...

He was very surprised ...

He looked at me, smiled and accepted papers from me ...

The next day ... he came ... menghampir iku and give the paper back ...

Heart Leaves are very strong and wind could not blow away, because it does not want to leave the tree leaves.

I look at him ... I went up with the kata2 ...

Very slowly ... she began to open himself and accept my presence and my phone ...

I know the person she loves is not ME ... but I will try that one day he likes me .. .

For 4 months, I say Wherever Love him no less than 20x ...

Almost every time he changed the subject. .. But I do not give up ...

Unanimous decision .... I want to have it. .. And hope he will agree to be my girlfriend ....

I asked, "what are you doing? Come you never reply?

Why do you keep silent? "

He said, "I tilted my head" ...

"Ah?" I can not believe what I was hearing ...

"I raised my head" he shouted ...

I put down the telephone ... ... Jump. A thousand steps ... run ... to his home ...

He opened the door for me ... I hug her tightly ...

"LEAF to fly because of the wind or because TREE did not ask her to stay?"

Shop of Conscience

Shop of Conscience

Some time ago had appeared an interesting story that aired on the television news in Taiwan. Alishan mountain there is a place called Rueili. A piece of road that connects Chiay and Alishan through this area.

On the side of the road there is a place selling fresh vegetables, vegetable growing and got a natural organic fertilizer without chemicals that are currently indicated by the medical world as an element that can bring cancer. In addition to vegetables, there are also fresh fruits align in a small kiosk.

But strangely. The kiosk is open 24 hours a day and never closed. Stranger still, no one is sitting there to serve the buyers. List price per kilogram of each item is clearly written. A tool weigh on the table. A barrel made of wood left in one corner. In these casks are sheets of banknotes and coins entered by the buyer.

Outside the kiosk written in Chinese characters; "Kiosk Conscience."

An old woman, a native of the mountains in the area Alisan, when asked by a TV reporter said: "Through this small kiosk I want to educate everyone to respect the individual conscience. Here there is no one to look after. But I believe, every person of conscience would confirm or prosecute if he did something. "

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When becoming president, Lincoln faced with so much criticism, especially when he is dealing with the Civil War. But he firmly adhered to the principle and said: "I will persevere to the end. I know when I put my position, I would have lost a lot of friends, but I'm sure I at least still have a friend, that he is in heart. "He adhered to the guidance of his voice.

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Conscience is the voice of God given in the heart of every man. He will confirm or judge our actions.